Party Every Week

I totally have changed this year, I've been partying like almost every week. Last year, I barely go to a party. This year I even help in organizing. It's fun. There's so many laughter. I think it is important to make memories because friends come and go because they go to different places, but as long we have memories it at least ease the pain of separation. If probably I did not go to there together , I am probably gonna be a lil bit depressed. These get together help me look forward for the days to come.

Secret Group

My facebook friends is getting bigger s in numbers. They're friends of friends, and friends of my relatives. I'm flattered that they want me to be their friends, but it just put me in a situation where I can no longer express what I really want to express because, I'm worried that one of them might not like what I wanted. Therefore I decided to make an secret group where I only invited very few people. Only those people that I can trust. So far all of us were having so much fun there. We were able to express our venting, rants and profanities. It's an outlet for everyone to express themselves without worrying what other people might said. I like it.

Lesson Learned

I lost another friend. I always think that it's for my own good. Everybody said it's for my own good. I do am thankful because I don't have to deal with her lies. But I am not sure if I am hurt or not. My mind is so tired as well as my body for my part time job and managing my blog online. I have too many activities going on that I didn't really get the chance to ponder. There are times that I'm so mad at her because she's a liar and so do stupid stuffs that does not just affect me but as well as the rest of my friends. But knowing her for a long time. She's the kind of person that will revenge when someone hurt her so much. She will instigate and provoke and stir gossip to put up a fire between friends. But if you really get to know her better, she's very loyal and caring. I don't even know if it's worth it. Because I know that she has too many problems with her husband who treated her like a slave, who always think she's sleeping around with different men. She's the kind of person who needs someone to talk to. And I'm her only friend before. Because of her crazy assumption that I was dumping her, she was so defensive and paranoid that she spread rumors to whoever knows us. I feel sorry for her. I am mad at her but I will forgive her in a heartbeat if she will only say sorry.

Focus and Balance

For all the things that happened since my birthday I'm kinda losing my balance, emotionally and intellectually. I was so hurt that all I'm thinking is how to get even with my bestfriend. Today, I realized that I'm too nice for these people who are hurting and using me. It's about time that I will fight back. It hurts because after all what you've done for her, she is quick to judge you. And what hurts me most is that she thought that I dump her. She actually used the word DUMP. She felt like just because I have new friends I forgotten her already. That's what she's been telling other people and some of them sympathize with her. For not it's unacceptable. I don't believe that's the reason because if it is, then she's immature and childish. It's been two weeks and since then I've been showered with blessings. I was so thankful to God that I sent her an email and apologizing for making her feel dump. Instead of being kind, she was rude and ungrateful. I felt insulted. But then I realized that I will not gonna step down on her level. She's an uneducated fool who thinks that she knows everything. I will just focus on positive things and live life to the fullest.

Facebook: Hiding And Deleting Posts

Facebook is fun. It's a cool way of keeping updated with friends. I have a pretty close to five hundred friends in facebook. They're my families, classmates, aacquaintances and friends of friends. I just don't feel like denying friendship requests. I don't have problems with all of them but there are few who posting something that are offensive to other people. I just find out that instead  of deleting these people I can just hide all their posts, then I won't be able to read them. I wish I knew this long time ago. I just want everything positive thoughts in my facebook wall. Nobody needs any hateful posts.

My First Long Drive

I'll be driving to Eureka  in an hour with my friend Jeline and Sophie. This is my first long drive without my husband. But I'm confident because my friend is with me. We will go to the Bayshore Mall to do some Christmas shopping. She's super excited because I cannot spurge because I'm broke :-). Me and Jeline are bestfriends. Our kids are bestfriends too. We have common interests when it comes to shopping, clothes and even when it comes to using the best acne treatments. When it works for her I will use it and vice versa. Hopefully today, we can find good deals at the store. Both of us love to shop stuffs that are on sale. Who doesn't?

And The Lunch Date

This is what happened when we get together. We talked about anything about everything under the sun. And we had fun. One of my friends shared something funny that made us all laugh.

Lunch Date

I'm excited today because I have a lunch date with my friends.Most of us are stay at home moms and some are working that's why we didn't get to see often. That's why we just set a date and where we can keep in touch. We will get together at a Chinese restaurant. I'm just glad that my husband will keep an eye on the baby. I'm excited to see them because I want to ask them what are the best acne products in the market or they have used since they all have flawless looking skin. I'm annoyed with my pimples in my arms already. It looks gross and I'm embarrassed to wear short sleeves already. I just can't wait to see them again. Our lunch is at 1pm so it's a perfect time for all of us.

Friends Are Blessings

"A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses."

I found another gem here in Crescent City,my friend Nancy. We started being close friends when we found out that we're both pregnant since then we started calling and share about our experiences plus we both have the same doctor. I'm 1 month and half ahead of her as in pregnancy. I'm so happy for her because this is her fist pregnancy and she can't wait to see her baby. I can see in her the same excitement the first time I got pregnant. She's such a nice person and God fearing too.

My Thursday

It's Holy Thursday, it's pretty much like my ordinary days. Although I wish to have a quiet time for reflection but Elli,a friend of mine visited us with her daughter. It's cool, my children are playing with her daughter Fawn, although when my daughter became so tired she doesn't want to share her piano anymore which makes the Fawn upset. Oh well, kids...Eli and I as usual talked about our lives being mother and wife. We seems to have a lot of things to talked about till my son got cranky so I watched tv with him and we both fall asleep. Eli was just browsing cool stuffs online. They went home like about four PM. It was a pretty nice visit.

WaMu to Chase

When I heard that Washington Mutual has gone down, I was thinking of withdrawing my money but hubby advised me to just leave it there because it's insured anyway. Though it's not that much, those are money that I earned from my paid blogging, surveys and monetary gifts from friends and families. Hubby didn't even now that I opened my own personal account at Washington Mutual not till recently. I told him those are emergency money to buy plane ticket to the Philippines just in case I'm pissed with him..at least I'm not thinking about using credit cards :-). He's cool with that, he knows that I love trying new things. Our primary account is at our local bank here in Crescent City. I just like it at WaMu because they offer 4.9% APR for my savings.
So last night, it's all confirmed that WaMu and being bought by JPMorgan Chase. Good thing that I wasn't able to buy stocks from WaMu the other day. Because I thought it was just a temporary set back, so when I checked their quota it's only .16 per share. I'm tempted to buy because if ever it will go up, it's a good gain. Anyways, as of September 25, 2008 all WaMu customer deposits are now deposits of JPMorgan Chase, one of the strongest financial institutions in the world. I wonder what next big companies will be going down with the current economic situation. It will totally be a shocked it it will be Coca Cola then being bought by Pepsi..lol..just trying to be silly...
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I want to thank Miss Lou for educating me about the stock market. And for all those wonderful ideas and tips , I really need those. She's so sweet and kind.
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